Add email activation flow and replace is_active with status column

Email signup now creates inactive users who must activate via a 30-minute
email token before signing in. Team creation is deferred to first login
after activation, while OAuth users continue to get teams immediately.

- Replace boolean is_active with status column (inactive/active/disabled/deleted)
- Add POST /v1/auth/activate endpoint with Redis-backed token consumption
- Signup returns message instead of JWT, sends activation email
- Login differentiates error messages by user status
- Add confirm password field to signup form
- Add /activate frontend page that auto-logs in on success
- Handle inactive user cleanup on re-signup (30-min cooldown) and OAuth collision

internal/api/middleware_jwt.go

@@ -50,7 +50,7 @@ func requireJWT(secret []byte, queries *db.Queries) func(http.Handler) http.Hand
 				writeError(w, http.StatusUnauthorized, "unauthorized", "user not found")
 				return
 			}
-			if !user.IsActive {
+			if user.Status != "active" {
 				writeError(w, http.StatusForbidden, "account_deactivated", "your account has been deactivated — contact your administrator to regain access")
 				return
 			}